4.4 Nature of the introverts:
They listen more than they talk. Because starting a conversation with someone new in the first place is always critical for them.
Actually they are bad at generating conversation. Put them in any situation and tell them to start the conversation—hey screw up. Even if an introvert is involved in a conversation with a group of people, the introvert person will be quiet and non-reactive frequently so usually other people find them boring and speak harshly to them if the other extrovert people are usually rude in nature. But many people can understand the problem and try to talk to them and try to make them comfortable with the situation.
But if a person talks less naturally he attracts less people to him and ends up having no friends.
They feel scared to talk to new people. They appear less in public affairs or programs. Eventually they become so lonely.
If two extroverted parents reproduce the chance is the child also gets that quality but unfortunately many times the child doesn’t get that trait and if the child doesn’t get it, the brain slot is empty where talktivity, confidence and non-overthinking traits could be. When those qualities are not available the child becomes introverted.
Introvertism is nothing but empty slots where extrovert traits could fill up.
Introverts suffer more from anxiety and panic attacks.
Because introverts are bad at communicating so naturally they start over-thinking or suffer from over-thinking or anxiety attacks or panic before starting a conversation with someone new or representing themselves in the public.
It’s not like introvertism is a living disease but lacks two disadvantages which are talktivity and confidence.