6.1 How aesthetism and hideousism are included to rape culture and usual romantic and sexual relationships of human:

The rape victims are not always good looking but average or even ugly. Less beautiful people are raped probably because in human society mostly people look ugly and average. 

People know who looks good, who looks average and who looks ugly so the rapist. It’s not possible to rape all the good looking people because they couldn’t be found everywhere anytime vulnerably but ugly and average people are everywhere to be found so when the rapist find a venerable victim they are mostly raped. 

If the rapist get one attractive, one ugly and one average victim, I think the rapist will rape the most attractive person on the first place. I think the rapist can at least judge who is the best looking person standing in front of him. 

Why the rapist doesn’t wait to find and rape a better looking victim? Because finding the victim in a vulnerable place, time and situation is tough. Reasons attractive people are less in quantity — and average and ugly people are more often found in human society. 

But I have seen a really small amount of people like 3-4 people in my 23 years of life who are naturally attracted to only good looking people, they especially focus on the face (best, semi-best faces not even average and never a ugly face) of the other person to like them physically and romantically. Called as  aesthetis.

They just can’t have sex or romantic relationships with average or ugly looking people, their preference doesn’t let them do it. Doesn’t mean the person who only likes to be with attractive people will be good looking too. They can be average, ugly or attractive, their face has nothing to do with their preference. 

Can these types (aesthetis) of people be rapists? I feel yes, because they only like attractive people and can’t feel doing it with any one who is average or ugly people. Doesn’t mean all they have a rapist mindset, anyone can be a rapist but if people who only like the good looks and they try to rape it’s just tough for them to find the attractive person in a vulnerable situation. Moreover they can’t rape an ugly or average person who could be found commonly in the human society. So the only thing this type (aesthetis) of person can do is wait for the right victim. 

I said I only found 3-4 people in my 23 years of life who are aesthetis.

And it’s true people like this could not be found easily, they are in less quantity. 

If just some people are like this then the biggest number of people who are opposite of them means they can create romantic and physical relationships with average or ugly people. Doesn’t mean they are unattracted to attractive people, it’s just that they can have a relationship with average or ugly ones knowing clearly they are forwarding their relation with average or ugly people. And they are called hideousis.

Now, mostly people are ugly and average looking and so the rapists are. 

Not only ugly people become criminals or rapists but they are in a big quantity so even good or bad people mostly look average or ugly. 

And rapist rapes any average or ugly person cause they don’t have the pull back which some people have (like aesthetis) while creating sexual relationship with them. 

If everyone in the human society becomes aesthetis and if the society mostly filled with people who are ugly or average the rape ratio will decrease. Because people are increasingly attracted only to physically attractive individuals, and society consists mostly of average or unattractive people, highly attractive partners are not easily available. If the proportion of average or unattractive people decreases and the number of attractive people increases, the rate of rape cases would increase.

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Srabon Ghosh