How do you find strength when things are hard - ZorbaBooks

How do you find strength when things are hard

Have faith! You are never given a problem that you can’t handle. Broaden your perspective. Life is a combination of good and tough times of happiness and pain. Start breathing. This activity actually prepares your body for better mental performance. Smile and laugh. Become detached.

When times get tough, when you fall down when you fail catastrophically when those you care for leave you or pass away — those are the times that we discover our strength.

  1. “Anyone can give up; it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone would expect you to fall apart, that’s true strength.”– Chris Bradford
  2. ​“Build upon strengths, and weaknesses will gradually take care of themselves.”– Joyce C. Lock
  3. ​“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.”– Arnold Schwarzenegger
  4. “Strength is the product of struggle; you must do what others don’t to achieve what others won’t.”– Henry Rollins
  5. “The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places.” — Ernest Hemingway

As an individual I am optimistic, pray to God and believe that things will go smoothly in routine. As a matter of fact, things will not happen as easily as we think on their own. Nothing happens in this world without our effort. Sometimes even if we put our sincere effort it may not happen depending on size and volume it may take some time or even more. We should understand and wait with patience. We can not plunge into the conclusions and feel stress and strain makes us lead an uncomfortable situation. We should not give a chance to throw in difficult situations. We should compromise and negotiate to get the things done in our favor is the right thing to do. Accommodate and adjust yourself with the available resources in a given time and satisfaction keeps us in a safe zone. Win-win strategy gives a winning mindset. The road will not be smooth all the time. It gives jerks, ups and downs, traffic regulations. We have to slow down and move forward with one step that allows us to reach our destination safely and securely well in time is the best way to approach. All the glitters are not gold. Slow and steady wins the race is the best way of living. Rome was not built in a day. Everything takes its own time. There is no short cut method for success. Struggle alone yields the best results. We should understand the system. Then only things will happen based on our attitude, effort, ability, skill levels, time and situation. Nothing happens instantly. Love yourself and your work. If you love your work it loves you in the form of success. Love and kindness are like two rails traveling together. Apply your brain logically. Comprehension helps to settle the hard things in a better way. Be happy and enjoy your journey.

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